I've seen the Cashmere interior in person but not the other two. I was OK with Cashmere and even grew to like it the 2nd time I saw it. However, depending on the exterior color we choose, Cashmere may not be available anyway.
I like the Ebony especially when looking at just the dash but I'm not sure if it's too much of a difference between the Ebony lower half and the Gray upper half of the vehicle. The Titanium seems to match the upper half well if not exactly.
My wife says that if we have to order it without seeing it in person then she leans toward the Titanium because she's just not sure how that Ebony bottom/Gray Top split will look. While the dash looks great with Ebony, she wants to be sure the difference in color between the top/bottom doesn't look too weird.
I think in the end we'll need to find a dealership that has both so we can actually see them in person.