ticner58,
Did your dealer ever "come clean" with you? Has your order at least been accepted into VOMS using his allocated slot?
If not, you really have nothing to lose by trying to find out who the largest dealer is in your area (heck, I'd try several areas). I have done some fairly extensive searching and there ARE some dealers that are getting a SIGNIFICANT number more Enclaves than anyone else. Try searching on terms like "#1 retail sales buick indianapolis" -- I'll just bet you can come up with 2 or 3 dealers in surrounding areas that are BIG dealers and now that you know how this game works -- you can ask the right questions, probably the biggest being: do you have an allocation slot this week that you can use to enter my order in VOMS and have it accepted.
If your order is still not accepted, you are not even in line yet -- that's the hard part for many of us to swallow, as our orders sit because our dealers didn't give us the right info. Many, if not most of us, would have walked if our dealer said, I get 1 slot a month, I've got 3 orders ahead of yours. Well crap buddy, that really means you've added at least 3 months to a wait time once in the "REAL" line of 8 to 10 weeks. That can make it a 5, 6, 7 month deal for some.
I sure hope you tell us you've been at least accepted and past 1100 as an order code.